The Miracles Of Christmas…The Miracles Of Each Season And The Miracles Of Life!

The miracles of Christmas, the miracles of each season and the miracles of life…meaning our lives! We have so much to be grateful for in our lives and a lifetime to celebrate that we are alive!


I love Christmas; the wonders of the season, the glory of God, the magical smiles in the hearts of children, the gatherings of family and friends, the amazing food with sugar and spice smells coming from the kitchen. And for me of course, Lefse or Norwegian Potato Cakes…warm or cold-rolled up with butter….oh my gosh…yum!

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Meaningful memories, both joyous and sad, run deep in your heart and spirit as we look back, remembering our loved ones…wishing they were still here and in many ways they are…through our memories, the old stories and family traditions that they passed on to us.


My Mom in her later years celebrating Wild Bill’s birthday with us…every year of my life, she always without fail would order me a birthday cake. She loved doing things for others and took great joy in going all out!

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The other day I ran across a quote by Lemony Snicket, from The Lump Of Coal…and it hit my heart, as it fit exactly what the Christmas season and our lives are all about.


“It is a miracle if you can find true friends, and it is a miracle if you have enough food to eat, and it is a miracle if you get to spend your days and evenings doing whatever it is you like to do, and the holiday season…like all the other seasons…is a good time not only to tell stories of miracles, but to think about the miracles in your own life, and to be grateful for them.”


Loosing my Mom a few days before Christmas was surreal and hard for my mind to comprehend. We think our parents will live forever, even when we know, due to illness that we could lose them and even with that, you are never prepared. Mom was so brave and she had done so well that in my heart I held on to hope that she would be okay. On a December Sunday, Mom stepped from this world into heaven on a beautiful, clear, crisp, winter dawn, just as the sun was breaking over the hills of Juniper Canyon, spilling eternal golden light at the break of day, with both WB and I at her side. As my heart broke, as difficult as it was, I knew without a doubt that I would see my Mom and Dad again someday, as they were together again and with God in heaven. They had been married 59 years when Dad had slipped into heaven the year before and I know it was incredibly difficult for Mom to be without him, even though she tried to not show it to me as she did not want me to worry…but I did…as I knew my Mom.

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A few days before, Mom told me she was going to take a nap and instead she fell into a sleep type coma for about 12 hours, I could not wake her, which was scary so I called her home health nurse, who came out to check on her and as she checked her vitals, Mom suddenly opened her eyes and was a bit confused and asked “Well why am I back here?” and then her beautiful brown eyes filled with love and she looked at me deeply and she began to pray aloud “The Lord’s Prayer” and I joined in with her, praying in unison together as we had many times before, only this time it was on eternal time. She shared with me that she knew where she was going as she had seen both my Dad and Jesus…and her dog Rhett Butler…she was so at peace having seen a glimpse of heaven.

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The day after Mom stepped into heaven, we had to go to town as I needed black shoes to wear with my dress for Mom’s funeral…somehow my black cowgirl boots did not look quite right with my dress. We went to the little mall we had at the time and everyone was Christmas shopping and running all around town…I was in a daze of shock and could NOT believe that life was going on, as my life had stopped! I wanted to scream and say “NO wait, my Mom’s life is over and so is my Dad’s and I don’t care about Christmas right now!”

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It took me a few years to recover from the grief of loosing both parents in a year of one another…the week we lost my Dad, we found out Mom was in kidney failure. I knew I could not take the time yet to grieve for my Dad as I needed to be strong for my Mom as she was so worried about me. “Mom, no not me….I am worried about you”…but she was my Mom and she always worried about me…no matter that I was now in my early 40’s and she was 80. No matter how old you are, your Mom will worry forever!


Christmas was an out-of-body experience for WB and I that year…we had not done any of our usual shopping. WB had decorated the tree and cooked for the many friends and family who came to see Mom as we had moved her to our home to be with us…she slept in her old bedroom that she shared with my Dad and the bed I had in the bedroom then was the antique bedroom set that used to be Mom’s when she was a little girl…how God like is that? I loved having her here with me even though at times it was sad…but many times we laughed together and watched old movies and talked all day and half the night and to me, that was a “gift from God.” I was a blessed daughter to spend that quality time with Mom as I was able to take care of her as she had taken care of me when I was a baby and as I grew up…and now I could support her with lots of love and lots of faith.

BTW the above picture was on Easter in front of Grandma’s house in town and all my cousins by the dozens along with me were trying to have an Easter egg hunt and Mom wanted pictures. All the Mom’s wanted pictures so there were some grouchy looking cousins…we wanted to find all the Easter eggs and candy that Grandma’s Easter Bunny had brought…and all our Mom’s could think of was pictures!!!


Mom’s funeral was December 23rd, and the church was beautifully decorated and filled with her life, as it was packed with her family and many friends. Our pastor began by saying “I have never been present at such a “Godly” death, as Casey’s, the peaceful presence of God was there”…the service was filled with love, just like my Mom, sweet and Godly with a personal touch of the classy lady she was.


I was deeply touched by the many tribute stories of how she cooked and took care of the world when they came to her house…she even tried to cook and take care of the care giver I hired to help us both with my Dad! She always had good food cooking, with a warm hospitable heart for people…and she always had a smile:) She loved to laugh and share funny stories…Mom and I could start giggling for no other reason than by just looking at each other, after all we spent many years with no one but us and Dad…poor Dad:) And we learned to survive on life…filling in the blanks with swimming when I could with her at the hot springs that was about 30 miles from the mountain ranch or we would look for rocks and do the rock hound thing…or she would go with Dad and I to salt cows on the rainy days in the Jeep…and it was always interesting as often Dad would make us both get out as he was not sure if he could make it and if he slid or rolled, he did not want us in the cab…oh great Dad! Mom was always a trooper and she loved Dad and I…and then WB…finally she had a son…when she was mad at me she would tell me she would trade me off and keep WB:) She was the best Mom ever and I miss her.


The day after Mom’s funeral, I wanted to cover my head up with the covers and dig a large hole to hibernate in, but I had to get out of bed early, at the break of dawn, as it was Christmas Eve Day. And because we had grandkids and kids to shop for, we did our last minute Christmas shopping in town. It was mind-boggling and exhausting…BUT…the best part of that day was waking up to a few inches of snow. I had complained for weeks that we had not had any snow yet for Christmas and when we woke up on the morning of the 24th, we had snow! As we drove to town that day, we found that less than a couple of miles away, there was no snow…it was only at our house…it felt like my Mom was saying to me “Now, honey, I know you are sad, but I am safe and with your Dad, and here is your snow from heaven.” It was beautiful to see as the sunlight sparkled on the fresh white blanket of snow with heavenly brilliance.

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Shopping was difficult as I felt like a zombie and neither of us could think or make decisions…it was a long hard day. My sister-in-law and her family lived in town, and after shopping, we had dinner that night together, feeling surreal in the twilight zone…we ate and then took a power nap so that we could go to church. I was determined to go to the 11:00 o’clock Christmas Eve Service at the Episcopal Church…and we did. It was beautiful with the red poinsettia’s, boughs of fir, with all the candles lite. Having been there the day before for Mom’s funeral, I felt I was on “Holy Ground” as I knelt at the altar that Christmas Eve Night. I knew that at that moment, all of heaven was celebrating the birthday of Jesus and welcoming my Mom to the celebration table…and Dad was with her again, as were her parents and all the family that had gone before her. Christmas Eve that year and the moments in my life that night, felt like a glimpse of heaven with God’s glory. A true miracle for a daughter who was deeply grieved, yet knew that God was there and my parents were safely with Him. For a month after we lost Mom, her bedroom smelled with the scent of roses…both WB and I were drawn to spend lots of time in her room in the morning, during our quiet waking up time with God and our cup of coffee.


  On Christmas morning, we got up early to wrap gifts and prepare for our son and his family to come visit us…they came and opened their gifts, sharing a few hours with us. And then, WB and I fell asleep on the sofa, we didn’t mean to, but we were exhausted emotionally and physically…we missed the dinner we had planned to fix for them as they left us to rest…and we did all day long and all night long. The next day we escaped to my in laws house in the mountains and stayed a few nights without a telephone or hectic reminders of life, just quiet rest with lots of snow. It was very peaceful to watch the snowflakes fall softly into the pine trees and fir trees in the forest around their house, with the fireplace crackling away, as the healing warmth of peace permeated deeply into our hearts. I love the stillness and the beauty of the fresh snow that falls quietly, untouched to the ground, as a pure white blanket…it seems that life itself stops, silently holding its breath, taking in the beauty of the glistening white snow as it sparkles in the moonlight or the porch light or when the first rays of dawn hit the snow, as it looks like a bed of white diamonds.


Coming home after a few days was hard as it was back to the reality that life had forever changed. At that time my parent’s house was right next door to our house…my kitchen window looked out at their house with a driveway between us…I could walk just a few feet for a cup of coffee to visit or if needed a Mom talk or a Dad talk. It was hard to see their house dark…so we decided to set a timer for the lights to come on at dark…but the first night I came home from work and saw the lights on I was stunned. Maybe I had imagined all of this and maybe Mom and Dad were there like usual…watching some old John Wayne movie on TV…much to Mom’s chagrin…and asleep on the sofa or recliner…waiting for me to get home. Mom always watched for my headlights to turn into the driveway as I would see her peek out the window to be sure I was home…safe and sound.


I was blessed as a daughter to take care of both of my parents at home, and the time I spent with each of them individually, was truly a gift from God…a true miracle of time and memories that will carry me forever, one of my Christmas miracles…feeling the presence of God and knowing that Mom was with Dad and with God. It will be 14 years ago this year that we lost Mom and 15 years ago that we lost Dad, and yet it seems like yesterday in many ways. I miss them both very much and often, I wish I could go next door to see them again for a hug and a cup of coffee. We have had many miracles to celebrate since then…my survival of breast cancer, Wild Bill’s two neck fusion surgeries and this year on Christmas Eve, WB will be having bicep surgery to repair three tears in his bicep muscle in his shoulder…it has been very painful for him and December 24th was the only day they could do the surgery. I know I will be attending another Christmas Eve Service in the hospital to give thanks to God, as our Christmas gift this year will be Wild Bill’s healing…and when I bring him home we will celebrate Christmas and life!


I hope and pray that as you look around your life or your circumstances during this Christmas Season, that you will see the miracles of your life. They can be small or they can be large…they can be minor or they can be major; either way, a miracle is a miracle of God…look deeply as we all have them. As I write this I see my Minnie Mouse snuggled up on top of the sofa on her blanket next to me…all curled up in her 18th year of a healthy life…and my hubby in his recliner…and I am here, alive and filled with God’s wonder and full of life. As I end this post, I will share with you one of the quotes that spoke to my heart that describes my Mom.

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“Who is that lady, small and spry, who never lets a day go by…without a thought of you and me and nature’s sweet simplicity? Whose hands can quickly touch and bring a work of art from a simple thing. Whose youthful spirit wanders free into the woods or up a tree…”


“She never lets life get her down, she’s not too proud to play the clown. In every melody she plays she marks the zest of all her days.”

“She’s a lady like no other…she’s God’s own child, my friend, my mother.”


The miracles of life…the miracles of the season and the miracles of Christmas.


We wish you a very Merry Christmas from…WB…Minnie…HRCG…and our horses, Fanny Annie, Melody and Buck…dogs Tuck, Dash, Ki…and barn cats Jack and Pat.

31 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. onespoiledcat
    Dec 14, 2012 @ 10:57:31

    What a remarkably beautiful holiday post Marcey…..a recollection of a sadder Christmas but even in that sadness there was joy and so much love. Your Mom’s last days there with you were amazing – what a true gift that was for all of you. Thanks for sharing such personal memories – there’s always something “familiar” to me when I read them because perhaps your memories remind me to treasure my own. Happy Holidays to you, Wild Bill and your animals – and I’ll be praying WB’s surgery goes well and perhaps the new year will be surgery free and the very best year yet for you!

    Love and Hugs,
    Pam (and Sammy who says Meowy Christmas Minnie!!)


    • Hot Rod Cowgirl
      Dec 14, 2012 @ 11:34:16

      Thank you so much Pam…when I happened on the quote the other day it hit me that I was to write a post about the miracles in our lives in both hard times and happy times…did not really know that when I began to write, I would write about loosing Mom. The words just kind of flowed…and i tried to not be too personal but I wanted to share the incredible gift of sharing Mom’s life and how gracious the last few months were. Initially the week we lost my Dad, her doctor said maybe she had a month or two to live and Mom said “Oh,well I feel just fine and I am going to be fine.” They put her on hospice and took her off of it six months later as she was doing so well…she and I had a full year to spend together…we did some traveling…she loved the ocean and beach so we found a place where she could sit by the window or on the deck taking in the incredible beauty of the waves..we had a good year of fun times and hard times but the fun times and the love out won the tough times. Loosing them both so close together was hard but God was good to me in that WB and I got to take care of them both here at home making special memories. I was diagnosed with cancer 8 years after loosing Mom and I was thankful she and Dad did not have to go through that with me as they would have worried themselves too much. Thank you for your prayers and and I send hugs and prayers back to you too for a special holiday season filled with good times and good memories:) I know I feel the same way about your posts too in that we have a familiar connection:) Minnie loves Sammy and says Meowy Christmas Sammy….kitty hugs:)


  2. jesusknowsmyname
    Dec 14, 2012 @ 17:08:48

    I actually don’t “Like” this… I “Love” this. Wonderful, just wonderful. Your comment about when your mother died and how the Christmas bustle continued, much to your dismay. One time my friend told me about a friend of her’s, whose son had been killed in a car accident. When this happened, the friend looked around incredulously at other people going about their business and said, “Don’t these people know my son just died!!” The world stops for us when we lose those we love. Just as I was writing this, your fake “snow” began floating across the screen–a miracle!! ;)


    • Hot Rod Cowgirl
      Dec 14, 2012 @ 23:05:50

      Thank You:) I am not sure where the fake snow came from…it began to show up on HRCG about a week ago so I figured that WP was letting us all have snow on our blogs until Christmas:) Truly I was able to get through the grief with God’s help as being an only child…it was very hard…God is good and He brought me through the sadness and loss…now my memories are softer and filled with love:)


  3. Dianna
    Dec 14, 2012 @ 17:38:57

    What a sweet special post. My mother also got ‘a glimpse of heaven” just a few hours before she died. She called out to her 3 brothers who were already in heaven, and told them not to leave. I know they had come for her and she wasn’t quite ready. It’s such a comfort: it just reinforces what we believe.
    Merry Christmas to you and your WB!


    • Hot Rod Cowgirl
      Dec 14, 2012 @ 23:08:35

      Amen and Amen:) It gave me great comfort then and yet still as I know but I know that I will see them again and we will be a family in heaven…and that is a very real comfort:) Wishing you and MM a very Merry Christmas too and a Hapy New Year…and Minnie says Meowsly Christmas to Sundae Girl:)


  4. catfromhell
    Dec 14, 2012 @ 17:53:13

    What a wonderful post. Christmas is so bittersweet at our home too. I love that you can write so eloquently about such a sad experience. Thank you so much for sharing.
    Nellie’s Mom


    • Hot Rod Cowgirl
      Dec 14, 2012 @ 23:11:27

      Thank you so much…I wrote through tears and then when I read the post to WB we both had choked emotions…God’s faith and my faith in Him…that is what carries me through:)


  5. Teepee12
    Dec 15, 2012 @ 06:31:55

    I don’t know if you’ve already gotten a Blog of the Year 2012, but even if you have, you can get lots of these and each time, you just add another star. So here’s a star for your walk of fame — — on this strange morning.


    • Hot Rod Cowgirl
      Dec 15, 2012 @ 16:30:28

      Thank you so much for this award! I did receive it last week and I am working on the post for it. I appreciate your support and encouragement…I love writing and just began reading the Writers Workout by Christina Katz…and I hope to find an online writing class at our local college and if not somewhere. I want to improve and keep learning to write better:) I am a good learner and ask lots of questions…I have a question for you….where and how do you set up an area on your blog for awards?


  6. emjayandthem
    Dec 15, 2012 @ 09:04:04

    Tears streamed down my face as I read your beautiful words of love for your Mother … on my father’s gravestone are the words, “Love lives on” and I think those are applicable here, too. Prayers for healing to WB and for comfort to you; may you find peace and loveliness in the quiet moments that are Christmas.



    • Hot Rod Cowgirl
      Dec 15, 2012 @ 16:39:21

      Thank you MJ:) I did not know what I was going to write on when I found the Lemony Snicket verse so I just began to write and the words flowed out of me…I cried too and then when I read it to WB he choked up too. Mom was truly like an “Angel” as she loved so easily, and she gave from her heart…she loved laughing:) I like what your father’s gravestone says as that is so true as we carry on with the memories and traditions…the love and happy times that we shared with our parents. WE are not looking forward to another surgery for WB but we are looking forward to his not being in pain! It has been since the end of July. Prayers for you and your family that you have a blessed and peaceful Christmas season.


  7. Marcella Rousseau
    Dec 15, 2012 @ 18:45:03

    This is a wonderful post in your inimitable style! Marcy, I hope you get everything you wish for this Christmas and then some.


  8. Where God Takes Me
    Dec 15, 2012 @ 22:05:13

    This brought tears to my eyes. I love love love the story of your mom waking up from her coma and praying with you. And I love that she saw her dog in addition to Jesus and your Dad. My husband worries that we will not have our dogs in heaven but I keep telling him that we will and I just told him your story and now he feels better. Love all of your photographs. Your mom looks like a movie star! Blessings, Viv


    • Hot Rod Cowgirl
      Dec 16, 2012 @ 10:25:58

      I did not have this post exactly planned…I loved the quote and thought it was so appropriate as Christmas is about miracles:) As I started to write I was led to share the miracle of my Mom. She was such a warm and wonderful Mom, I was lucky and thankful that I was able to be right next door when both Dad and Mom became ill. I have always believed like you that we will have all our animals in heaven…God made them all and He loves them…and He promises to give us the desires of our hearts, and that includes all our animals:) Mom was so happy that she had seen Rhett Butler and at peace:) I know your doggies will be there too:)


  9. bobmielke
    Dec 16, 2012 @ 05:20:47

    Lovely photos today. We had our first snowflakes around Portland Saturday.


  10. tbnranch
    Dec 18, 2012 @ 22:52:57

    What a lovely post, I’m living the same story right now… this is going to be a really hard Christmas this year. I am also worried about my Dad now being alone. I think we both found some comfort writing about it.


    • Hot Rod Cowgirl
      Dec 19, 2012 @ 14:24:28

      Thank you Amy…I am sorry for the loss of your Mom…we are never prepared. I do know how difficult it is and this time of year hard. I lost my Dad first and was very worried about my Mom…she would not go to the doctor when Dad was so ill…finding out she was in kidney failure the week we lost Dad was a shock. I could not grieve yet for loosing Dad as I felt I needed to be strong for Mom…it was very hard…and I worried over her night and day, so I understand the concern you have for your Dad. Mom finally moved in with us the last few months and it was a blessing. I am sending you lots of prayers and hugs…we both had wonderful Mom’s full of love and life. I am here if you need someone to talk to and ask is this normal? I found the grief was like the ocean, you would be doing fine one minute and the next a sneaky wave would knock you down. Be good to you, you are a good daughter and your Mom knew that. God Bless You…Your Dad and Family.



      • tbnranch
        Dec 19, 2012 @ 14:42:00

        Thank yo,u so much. I know what you mean about all the emotions, I go from sadness to anger…. then question myself on if I did all that I could. I suppose that’s normal.

      • Hot Rod Cowgirl
        Dec 20, 2012 @ 06:54:21

        A few months after my Mom passed away, I had to get groceries at our local Safeway. I drove to town and grabbed a cart, began shopping. I kept seeing everyone around me laughing and living life normally while I was feeling broken. It upset me so bad that I could not do it. I parked the cart and went home. I also questioned myself and learned that is part of it. Our Mom’s knew we loved them and they loved us too….and that is why your Mom chose yo to be the leader. Amy, you are a good daughter. I was an only child which had its pros and cons as I felt so alone….thankfully I had WB. I actually had people say dumb things like “Oh, now you are an orphan.” That did not help but as time went on I began to understand that here in the US we do not know how to grieve…another issue that I resented was that after two weeks I began to feel pressure from others that ok now you have to move on MJ..I said no…I will move one when I am ready. You will experience all kinds of emotions and reactions from others…hang in there and be good to yourself…I am thinking of you.

  11. Teepee12
    Dec 21, 2012 @ 22:11:03

    It’s another award. Actually, it’s the same award … another star for your Blog of the Year, 2012 award. It’s my fifth. I don’t know how many you have, but I hope is at least a bit of a Christmas gift! Happy, merry and joyous celebrations!


    • Hot Rod Cowgirl
      Dec 22, 2012 @ 16:57:58

      Thank you so much:) It is a gift and blesses my heart:) I need to figure out how to put my awards on my page…I just got a book on Word Press Blogs so maybe I can find the how to directions there:) Merry Christmas and Happy New Years to you too:)


  12. Teepee12
    Dec 22, 2012 @ 12:23:34

    Santa has way too many awards, so he’s dropping a bunch of them for you to do with as you choose. There are some real goodies in there, including another start fot the Blog of the Year 2012, and 4 or 5 others. Take’em all, take your pick, enjoy. It’s Christmas, almost!


    • Hot Rod Cowgirl
      Dec 22, 2012 @ 17:00:26

      Thank you:) If Santa is dropping them on me I must have been a good girl this year LOL and a wink or two:) I will enjoy putting them all into several posts…my hubby has to have shoulder surgery the 26th so I will have some time on my hands to write and entertain myself with these awards:):):)


  13. catnipoflife
    Dec 22, 2012 @ 14:32:55

    Christmas present…in fact, two Christmas presents…

    catnipoflife is bestowing two awards upon you today…The Very Inspiring Blog Award and my favorite the Don’t Do a Damn Thing Award. I Just Like Your Blog. Here is the badge for the latter:

    I am presently working on the Inspiring award so check back later today for its posting and grab the badge.

    Merry Christmas!
    Sharla aka Catnip


    • Hot Rod Cowgirl
      Dec 22, 2012 @ 17:03:46

      Thank you Sharla aka Catnip:) Love your name:) I will enjoy passing the awards on as writing a post on them:) I love the last one, your favorite… cute and fun!!! I love Christmas presents too so you made my day! Minnie Mouse says “Meowsy Meowsy”….she is so cute:) We both wish you a Merry Christmas and a super Happy New Year!!!


  14. Renee
    Dec 24, 2012 @ 21:36:32

    There is an Online Christmas Party at Marsha Lee’s Blog! Celebrating my birthday and Christmas! Feel free to stop by and celebrate!
    Merry Christmas!
    Renee :)


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